it's not a shock that covid drained us all
it was a hard season
still is hard at times
but it shook me to my core
I felt like I couldn't breathe
things I loved
a job I loved
people I loved
just hidden
taken away
maybe miles away but might have well as been light years away
the distance was isolating
there is a reason they isolate prisoners
actually I don't know the reason
it's cruel
it's mean
and it teaches you a lot
anyways im thankful for the roommates I had when it started
very thankful
they were light
but covid showed me a lot about myself
when you strip everything away
you realize what you really need
yes what I really needed was the Tennessee Titans
haha jk jk
well kind of
but I realized when it all was taken away
I needed the Lord so much
needed to wrestle
and talk and hear and lean
LEAN into him
it wasn't pretty
yet it was close
and as I slowly got my breathe back
like most of us
I found myself needed people who could handle the light and the dark
no one else
and found myself looking for small small ways to laugh again
I have a friend
and she has a friend
that works for the titans
and so we started going
we weren't fans
we just liked to be together so sometimes we'd spend 1/2 the game in our car giggling
and crying
and sometimes we would barely look at the field
but one game at a time we went
then slowly but surely
we'd watch a little more of the game
watched this guy they called king henry run the ball
we enjoyed that
and before we know it
3. seasons...4 seasons later
we're enjoying the games
not just enjoying
some would call us fanatics now.
we have pom poms and we have made the jumbotron
anyways the point is
I dind't need the titans necessarily
but I needed fun
I needed to think of anything else but my situation
all I lost
I just needed for 3 hrs, 17 times a year, I needed to just think of something else besides COVID and my life
and that's what the Titans did
we cheered we laughed we acted like fools
we had fun like the other fans
like the kids
I think what i've learned from loving sports again
is we need fun
the order we get we need something that isn't us driving life
pushing for more money
pushing to stay as fit as we were in our 20's
pushing to save for retirement
pushing for less wrinkles ;)
we need something else
we need fun
we need laughter
God made me that way
to handle life
I have ZERO doubt in my mind it's a gift
to notice the smallest things and laugh
to enjoy weird random things
I just forgot for a bit
which is ok we cna't laugh and have fun all the time
but the point is to find things that bring you joy
that can't be perfect can only be fun
I can't control if the titans win
(although call me Amy Adams and we can talk about me coming to work there and seeing what I can do as your new employee haha ok ok I'd make a lowsy GM but i'd make a great events and operations director, just saying)
anyways back to the titans...
I can't control how good they are
who gets injured
if they win
if Derrick becomes my friend
that's what I love about sports actually.... you can buy the best team
have the best coach in the league (which we do)
and it's all up in the air, the worst team can beat the best team
someone can have the best play of their life
someone can make their worst play
the point is...you go all in..pick a team...and GO BIG cheering them on
lose yourself
wear the dumbest costume
paint your face and your car
SCREAM LIKE THEY CAN HEAR YOU FROM THE 300 LEVEL
whatever it taeks to feel like a kid
and have some fun
and when they lose you can cry or be mad
but it's not that big of deal in your life comparative to the rest of your life
so there is a freedom to it
anyways im so thankful for the titans over these past three years
I have my pom poms laid out for the cowboys game tomorrow.
read that again.
I have my pom poms laid out
HAHAHAHAH
that's fun.
find something that makes you want to go stand out in two degree weather
that makes you act a fool to get on a massive tv
find something that makes you take yourself and life a little bit less seriously
thanks titans for doing that for me
for reminding me to let go a little bit
to have a little bit of fun as I get older
fun isn't just for the youth
it's for all of us
I love that you brought that to me again titans
I really do
my heart is a little lighter
and my laugh is a little louder
#TitanUp